The time I spent with my mom really highlighted to me the virtues of tangling. It was something I could do that really seemed to relax HER as well as me. I sat close to her, sharing her hospital bedtray as a table. She seemed to really enjoy just being with me and watching, without having to talk or do anything herself. If she wanted to talk, she could, but mostly she just watched and dozed. I tangled a nameplate for her nursing home room door (one letter per tile, that's seven tiles right there), plus lots of other tiles. The tangling kept me calm and focused during a very trying time. Plus, the supplies are so easily portable and take up so little space in a small room.
In addition to spending time with mom, we had to clean up and close out her assisted living apartment, since she needed to be moved to a nursing home. And once again I was struck by how much I've learned from tangling. Don't be overwhelmed by choices. Take things one step at a time. Small strokes lead to completed works. So many really helpful life lessons, all from one simple art form.
Now the zentangles. First is this week's Diva Challenge, using the new tangle, Quandry.
Next is Challenge 105, Dansk.
And finally, a few others from my trip.
Karen, I'm sure your mother enjoyed your company and watching you create your beautiful tiles. Zentangle really helps us through tough times and is so great to help us find a quiet place in all the difficult times in our lives.
ReplyDeleteNice to see so much of your work in one post, a feast for the eyes! Beautiful work on all. Love the addition of color. Thanks for your inspirational share, my thoughts are with you and your family.
ReplyDeleteHi Karen, reading your story and feeling your joy of drawing and love and silence in this special hours. So beautifull to remember. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteYour Quandary is near to perpection (wish I could say that of mine, but .... if it's hard that's a lesson too). The other tiles are all great and it's nice to look at them and think about how you were sitting with your mother.
ReplyDeleteExquisite tile and beautiful post. My thoughts are with you and your mother.
ReplyDeleteKaren Lynn, you are a master of beauty!
ReplyDeleteLovely tiles. The Quandary one is very pretty with the colour.
ReplyDeleteSo very beautiful. Thank you for sharing your story too. Hang in there; I'm glad you have Zentangle in your life!
ReplyDeleteA great post and beautiful work you showed us. Great that just sitting next to your mother and tangling is so relaxing for the both of you. Your quandary tile is so perfect, and very smart to do some colors in the background of the tangle, my thoughts are with you and your mother.
ReplyDeleteLovely tiles! My thoughts are with you and your family.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful use of quandary and colour. Lovely!
ReplyDeleteBeautiful post - I'm sure the time you spent with your mom in tangle "Zen" was as good for her as for you. What a beautiful way to spend time with someone you love who is ill or aged. I love your use of color in quandry, and the linking lines you've used in some to make them look more flower-like
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